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On another page write, “The Kind of Marriage (or Relationship) I want.” Describe what your day might look like, where you might live, the kinds of things you and your spouse might do, how many children you might have, how you treat each other, and what the general feeling is in the home. In chapter 9 you created a “Man Plan” and a “Relationship Map”, so anything you come up with here can be added to that.
Your goals will undoubtedly change over time. It is important that you remain flexible, but it is very helpful to have a good idea of what you want or what you envision for yourself. By having this road map for your life, you will be well on your way to getting what you want.
Mistake #4: They Send Out the Wrong Messages
You may be saying you want to wait, but your body language and appearance may be saying something else. When you send out the message that you are ultra sexy, you usually end up getting the kind of attention that puts you in compromising positions. Don’t be deceived into thinking that men want “sexy.” Men may appreciate a sexy woman, but it is not a requirement for marriage. Men who are serious about