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 Oct 29, 2013 at 9:47 AM PST

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“…your book spoke so powerfully to me about a reality we women often ignore because of our own desperate desire to find love. Unfortunately, we live in a society where we expect things to come quickly and are not willing to take our time and do things right. It’s a book I believe all my single friends should read…if all women understood the truths in your book there would be a big transformation in all of our love lives…thank you for the gift of your book.” Lisa M.

“I was unable to put your book down until I had read every last word! Now I’m going back through, answering the questions and making sure I have not missed anything. I am convinced that having sex too soon explains many of the problems I have encountered. Your book has given me the courage to break this cycle.”

Mari W.

“Your book is a really helpful guide and tool to help me navigate through my relationships with men…it has prepared me to have the conversation I was always afraid to have, and it has empowered me to feel confident so I can stand my ground and not let a man bully me into doing something I might regret later. It has given me hope that I’m not alone and that there is nothing wrong with me just because I don’t want to have sex right away.” Jasmine S.

“Your book has completely changed my perspective on sex and relationships. The day I came across your book was the day I had decided to be abstinent until I am involved in a REAL relationship…when I saw your book I thought, ‘Here is my answer!’ Everything you have written in your book is everything I need to know to change my life for the better. I have already read the book once, but am reading it once again because there are so many important truths in your book. I don’t want to experience this pain again—it hurts too badly and takes a long time to get over. I want love, commitment, and trust, not just sex, and thanks to your book, I now have the determination to reach my relationship goals.” Pamela A.

“I just finished reading your book…I wanted to let you know that many times I felt as if you were looking inside my head and heart and writing about me. I have just ended a relationship based on sex, because emotionally I couldn’t  handle it any more. Thanks for a great book.” Lynn B.

“Thank you for writing this book—it has changed my life! I only wish I had it when I was sixteen. I would have made better choices. Now, because of your book, I can have more confidence in myself and know that I have worth in a relationship.” Shelley S.

“Attending Dr. G’s seminar has been a true blessing for me. The concepts she teaches have touched me in such a profound way. She has helped give me the courage to live my life in the way I have always wanted to live it.” Mara

“Dr. G. has incredible insight when it comes to people. She was able to pinpoint the exact areas that needed improvement in my relationships and she shared powerful information in a non-judgmental way that has really inspired me. I can’t wait to put these principles into action!” Brenda W.

More Testimonials

“I truly enjoyed every minute of your book. I am thirty-six years old and for years have been floundering in one unsuccessful relationship after another. If I had had your book twenty years ago my life might have been very different. I loved your book; it made sense and touched me. Thank you for writing it, I really needed it.” Sandra E.

“Just wanted to say, I love your book. Very tastefully done!” Jodi S.


“Your book is an excellent subject and written so wonderfully! I truly believe this book should be required reading for high school girls so they can start their lives off right. This would benefit our society greatly!” Leonor B.

“Thank you so much for writing this wonderful book. I want to get married again and this time do it right…I want the kind of love you describe in your book. I want to be treated like a queen, cherished, and adored.” Dorothy D.

“Thank you! Thank you! I am abstaining until I am engaged, and I’m happy with my decision and standing firm.” Jonanda B.

“Thank you so much for your book. It has been such a blessing for me and my friends.” Janice K.

“Thank you for your important book. I have a strong desire to reclaim myself, after allowing myself to be used by others…my relationships felt unfulfilling. It is so difficult to reverse patterns from childhood, but I feel like it’s possible now.” Rebecca M.

“I just finished reading your book and I feel as though it will truly help me put an end to my own pattern of dead-end relationships. Thank you!” Rebecca G.

“I cannot count how many times I have read your book, cover to cover. Your book touched me in so many ways. It took me a little while to really use what I learned from your book. At least it’s never too late to start again. I would like to thank you for writing your book.” Annalie G.

“We enjoyed so much your Friday and Saturday seminars. Your presentation gave insight in how to deal with sensitive dating issues. One lady commented, ‘This book should have been written 50 years ago!’ I feel that you have brought to light through your research and study, practical guidelines which can be passed down generation through generation based on Universal principles. You handled these issues in a sensitive, yet thought-provoking manner. Keep up the good work. We look forward to future books written in your own inimitable style.” Susan H.

“Dr. G’s workshop helped me get into touch with who I am and what my true values are. I’m learning to know how to set my own boundaries instead of just falling into situations that aren’t right for me. I’ve always wanted to wait until marriage, but along the way I lost my conviction. Dr. G. has helped me to re-establish these same standards and remain true to myself.” Sandra